The Power of No.

when someone keeps telling you what a bad position you are in and how you need to do what they are saying, its not usually your problem. All they are really telling you is much shit they are in, how much pressure they are getting from the people above them. Let them get on with it. Give them a happy No, and walk away like you don't care.You do have to mean it. I know this is tricky and a little uncomfortable, but the more you do it, the less shit you get.